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Pet Play Scene – Do you want to go walk?!
Taking your human pet out and about on a walk is a really fun Pet Play Scene to do together and has a wide range of intensity and complexity depending on your negotiations and planning. This scene works well for partners who have been playing together for a while and have a good knowledge of one another as – unless you own a wide expanse of private property – this is a more public scene; it does come with different risk factors and requires trust to execute in a fun and safe way. Before you start your Pet Play Scene Remember to negotiate your scene and safewords before any scene! If…
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BDSM Negotiations
When I first began playing with some dear friends of mine we began our negotiations using mind maps! It was such a fun time explaining and learning about one another and it honestly deepened my understanding of my submission more than I thought possible in one sitting. And introduced me to a bunch of new ideas. AND made us all so much closer SO naturally I wanted to share this with all of you! What we used What we did We decided to do these mind maps following a day hanging out together so we got back to their place, all of us got comfy on the floor with snacks…
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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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Pet play and chill – my favorite kinky date night
One of my favorite pet play dates is a pet movie date! It is the basic idea of a regular at home movie date with a little bit of… Spice. And the best part is you can dial this type of date up or down! The basics of a pet play movie date You will need a movie you want to watch and some privacy. Get comfy! I personally like to build a nest of fluffy blankets and wear as little clothing as temperatures allow Put on your movie Pets snuggle into your humans Humans pat your pets Enjoy the vibes and “try” not to get distracted To dial up…
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Safewords! The key to consensual BDSM practice
Safewords are a key concept in the BDSM scene that allow us to play in a safe consensual manner with others. Safewords give both the Top and bottom in a scene the power to withdraw consent at any time. If you are unfamiliar with this concept you may be wondering Why do you need a special word? Just say no? The answer to this can be a little bit difficult to wrap your head around at first but Sometimes it’s fun to say no and then have the scene continue anyway, to cry out and struggle and beg for them to stop and they just keep going It adds to…
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Making Pet Ears – my skill transformation and Top Tips
I have been making pet ears for… about 3 years now? And the other day I found one of my first ever pairs of ears!! …that weren’t immediately trashed… And I wanted to share with you my progression over the years and the Top 3 alterations that I think have made the biggest difference to the quality of my pet ears. Making Pet Ears in 2019 This pair of ears is one of the first sets I ever made. They were for a high protocol evening back in the day when we could actually host large events Ahh the good old days. Making Pet Ears in 2022 This is a…
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So you want to be a Human Pet?
First we need to know what a Human Pet is and what the term means. The term Human Pet is often used as an umbrella label for those who participate in Pet Play (as a pet) whether they roleplay as kittens, puppies, ponies, cows etc. But Human Pet also refers to a pet player who does not roleplay a specific animal. This sounds kind of odd and what really helped my understanding of this was when I came across the terms Non Transformative and transformational pet play For the life of me I cannot remember where I found these terms, but they made such a difference to my understanding of…
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Pet Play Scene – Do you want to go walk?!
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Cow Play – An Introduction to Hucow roleplay
Cow play is a popular genre of pet play where the pet takes on the role and behaviours of cattle. This type of pet play has strong ties with lactation fetishes, D/s dynamics and objectification. Cow Play can also be referred to as Livestock play. Livestock play, from my understanding, is an umbrella term for pet players who play the role of any kind of livestock. This includes cows, pigs, sheep, goats or any other animal that is normally raised and/or used on a farm. Cow players are often referred to as hucows (human cows) and play in conjunction with D-types, who are often referred to as Farmers. Types of…
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How to name your Pet Play space
Not to brag, but it only took me about four years(?) to finally choose a name for my pet play space… I’m just really decisive like that. Finally settling on a name was a surprisingly important moment for me, and it has helped me feel closer to my kitten space. So naturally, any time I do something that improves my pet play, I want to write about it! In this post we will look at: The benefits of naming your pet play space Using a special name(s) can add depth to your roleplay scene. It helps to create more “space” between you the reader, the human, all different roles you…
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Reconnecting with Pet Play
Sometimes – often – life gets in the way and we lose touch with parts of ourselves. These parts can be our hobbies, friends, lifestyles or – to be on topic – kink. Job changes, injuries, illness, study, even breakups can all leave us feeling disconnected from parts of ourselves that we really value. This happened to me last year… repeatedly. So While I’m still working on reconnecting with many sides of myself I wanted to write here about how I’m rebuilding my connection with my pet side To both acknowledge my progress and hopefully help others out there who are going through something similar. When I first realised that…
