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BDSM Negotiations
When I first began playing with some dear friends of mine we began our negotiations using mind maps! It was such a fun time explaining and learning about one another and it honestly deepened my understanding of my submission more than I thought possible in one sitting. And introduced me to a bunch of new ideas. AND made us all so much closer SO naturally I wanted to share this with all of you! What we used What we did We decided to do these mind maps following a day hanging out together so we got back to their place, all of us got comfy on the floor with snacks…
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Pet play and chill – my favorite kinky date night
One of my favorite pet play dates is a pet movie date! It is the basic idea of a regular at home movie date with a little bit of… Spice. And the best part is you can dial this type of date up or down! The basics of a pet play movie date You will need a movie you want to watch and some privacy. Get comfy! I personally like to build a nest of fluffy blankets and wear as little clothing as temperatures allow Put on your movie Pets snuggle into your humans Humans pat your pets Enjoy the vibes and “try” not to get distracted To dial up…
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Cow Play – An Introduction to Hucow roleplay
Cow play is a popular genre of pet play where the pet takes on the role and behaviours of cattle. This type of pet play has strong ties with lactation fetishes, D/s dynamics and objectification. Cow Play can also be referred to as Livestock play. Livestock play, from my understanding, is an umbrella term for pet players who play the role of any kind of livestock. This includes cows, pigs, sheep, goats or any other animal that is normally raised and/or used on a farm. Cow players are often referred to as hucows (human cows) and play in conjunction with D-types, who are often referred to as Farmers. Types of…
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How to name your Pet Play space
Not to brag, but it only took me about four years(?) to finally choose a name for my pet play space… I’m just really decisive like that. Finally settling on a name was a surprisingly important moment for me, and it has helped me feel closer to my kitten space. So naturally, any time I do something that improves my pet play, I want to write about it! In this post we will look at: The benefits of naming your pet play space Using a special name(s) can add depth to your roleplay scene. It helps to create more “space” between you the reader, the human, all different roles you…
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Begginners Guide to Pet Play – How to get into Pet Space
The best way I've found to get into Pet space!
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What is kitten play?
Kitten Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a cat and their partner (if they have one) usually acts as their owner Unlike Puppy or Pony play, the Kitten Play community began developing online in the late 90’s – so kitten play is still pretty new! In this post we will look at; Types of Kittens Types of Tops Activities Gear Where to find out more Types of Kittens Domesticated – Kittens with a submissive and affectionate nature. Stray – A kitten that does not have an owner/partner. Feral – A kitten who is not submissive in nature. Feral kittens tend to…
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What is Puppy Play
Puppy Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a canine and their partner (if they have one) often takes on the role of an owner/trainer/handler Puppy play as we know it began in the leather community after the 2nd world war. Now days puppy play has become hugely popular within BDSM communities! In this post we will look at; Types of Pups Some common puppy types pet players identify with are: Puppies – Puppies are the over excitable, playful and super enthusiastic puppy player. Puppies or pups is also used as an umbrella name for puppy player. Strays – Pups who are…
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BDSM Kitten Play Training
The fun and playful ways I use Training in my BDSM Pet Play
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Pet Play – Building a dynamic
A introduction to building a dynamic with new play partners
