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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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So you want to be a Human Pet?
First we need to know what a Human Pet is and what the term means. The term Human Pet is often used as an umbrella label for those who participate in Pet Play (as a pet) whether they roleplay as kittens, puppies, ponies, cows etc. But Human Pet also refers to a pet player who does not roleplay a specific animal. This sounds kind of odd and what really helped my understanding of this was when I came across the terms Non Transformative and transformational pet play For the life of me I cannot remember where I found these terms, but they made such a difference to my understanding of…
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Cow Play – An Introduction to Hucow roleplay
Cow play is a popular genre of pet play where the pet takes on the role and behaviours of cattle. This type of pet play has strong ties with lactation fetishes, D/s dynamics and objectification. Cow Play can also be referred to as Livestock play. Livestock play, from my understanding, is an umbrella term for pet players who play the role of any kind of livestock. This includes cows, pigs, sheep, goats or any other animal that is normally raised and/or used on a farm. Cow players are often referred to as hucows (human cows) and play in conjunction with D-types, who are often referred to as Farmers. Types of…
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Begginners Guide to Pet Play – How to get into Pet Space
The best way I've found to get into Pet space!
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Crafty Critters – I dyed my Rope!
I’m so excited about this project – I just had to share! I made a new kinky friend through my holiday travels and her entire BDSM toy bag is pastel pink – including her rope. Combine this with my newest obsession of what my Owner affectionately calls “Bimbo’ pink I just had to dye my rope. I was very good and did my research before I got over-excited and found a tutorial on Rope Connections. Which I followed pretty much to the letter. What I used 2x 8m lengths of Jute 2x 4m lengths of Jute 1x Packet of Rit Fuchsia All purpose Dye 1 cup of salt Heavy duty…
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BDSM Puppy Play Training
Recently I had a conversation with a fellow kinky friend who had recently discovered puppy play – and had been having a lot of fun with it! She asked me for some advice on training in her pup space and I was honestly a bit stumped. I’d seen pups train and play at previous parties but being a kitten I’d never thought about puppy training before. So we bounced around some ideas and it inspired me to do some research and create this post for any other pups out there who are starting out on there puppy training! Sit How to do it Get yourself into a comfortable kneeling position…
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5 ways to wear ribbon tails
Here are my five favourite ways to wear tails for pet play! With pros and cons of course #1 Plugs Pros Cons #2 Harness Pros Cons #3 Belt Loops Pros Cons #4 Safety Pinned Pros Cons #5 Around your waist Pros Cons
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What is kitten play?
Kitten Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a cat and their partner (if they have one) usually acts as their owner Unlike Puppy or Pony play, the Kitten Play community began developing online in the late 90’s – so kitten play is still pretty new! In this post we will look at; Types of Kittens Types of Tops Activities Gear Where to find out more Types of Kittens Domesticated – Kittens with a submissive and affectionate nature. Stray – A kitten that does not have an owner/partner. Feral – A kitten who is not submissive in nature. Feral kittens tend to…
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What is Puppy Play
Puppy Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a canine and their partner (if they have one) often takes on the role of an owner/trainer/handler Puppy play as we know it began in the leather community after the 2nd world war. Now days puppy play has become hugely popular within BDSM communities! In this post we will look at; Types of Pups Some common puppy types pet players identify with are: Puppies – Puppies are the over excitable, playful and super enthusiastic puppy player. Puppies or pups is also used as an umbrella name for puppy player. Strays – Pups who are…
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BDSM Kitten Play Training
The fun and playful ways I use Training in my BDSM Pet Play