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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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Pet play and chill – my favorite kinky date night
One of my favorite pet play dates is a pet movie date! It is the basic idea of a regular at home movie date with a little bit of… Spice. And the best part is you can dial this type of date up or down! The basics of a pet play movie date You will need a movie you want to watch and some privacy. Get comfy! I personally like to build a nest of fluffy blankets and wear as little clothing as temperatures allow Put on your movie Pets snuggle into your humans Humans pat your pets Enjoy the vibes and “try” not to get distracted To dial up…
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So you want to be a Human Pet?
First we need to know what a Human Pet is and what the term means. The term Human Pet is often used as an umbrella label for those who participate in Pet Play (as a pet) whether they roleplay as kittens, puppies, ponies, cows etc. But Human Pet also refers to a pet player who does not roleplay a specific animal. This sounds kind of odd and what really helped my understanding of this was when I came across the terms Non Transformative and transformational pet play For the life of me I cannot remember where I found these terms, but they made such a difference to my understanding of…
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