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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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Cow Play – An Introduction to Hucow roleplay
Cow play is a popular genre of pet play where the pet takes on the role and behaviours of cattle. This type of pet play has strong ties with lactation fetishes, D/s dynamics and objectification. Cow Play can also be referred to as Livestock play. Livestock play, from my understanding, is an umbrella term for pet players who play the role of any kind of livestock. This includes cows, pigs, sheep, goats or any other animal that is normally raised and/or used on a farm. Cow players are often referred to as hucows (human cows) and play in conjunction with D-types, who are often referred to as Farmers. Types of…
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How to name your Pet Play space
Not to brag, but it only took me about four years(?) to finally choose a name for my pet play space… I’m just really decisive like that. Finally settling on a name was a surprisingly important moment for me, and it has helped me feel closer to my kitten space. So naturally, any time I do something that improves my pet play, I want to write about it! In this post we will look at: The benefits of naming your pet play space Using a special name(s) can add depth to your roleplay scene. It helps to create more “space” between you the reader, the human, all different roles you…
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Reconnecting with Pet Play
Sometimes – often – life gets in the way and we lose touch with parts of ourselves. These parts can be our hobbies, friends, lifestyles or – to be on topic – kink. Job changes, injuries, illness, study, even breakups can all leave us feeling disconnected from parts of ourselves that we really value. This happened to me last year… repeatedly. So While I’m still working on reconnecting with many sides of myself I wanted to write here about how I’m rebuilding my connection with my pet side To both acknowledge my progress and hopefully help others out there who are going through something similar. When I first realised that…
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Begginners Guide to Pet Play – How to get into Pet Space
The best way I've found to get into Pet space!
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BDSM Puppy Play Training
Recently I had a conversation with a fellow kinky friend who had recently discovered puppy play – and had been having a lot of fun with it! She asked me for some advice on training in her pup space and I was honestly a bit stumped. I’d seen pups train and play at previous parties but being a kitten I’d never thought about puppy training before. So we bounced around some ideas and it inspired me to do some research and create this post for any other pups out there who are starting out on there puppy training! Sit How to do it Get yourself into a comfortable kneeling position…
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5 ways to wear ribbon tails
Here are my five favourite ways to wear tails for pet play! With pros and cons of course #1 Plugs Pros Cons #2 Harness Pros Cons #3 Belt Loops Pros Cons #4 Safety Pinned Pros Cons #5 Around your waist Pros Cons
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What is kitten play?
Kitten Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a cat and their partner (if they have one) usually acts as their owner Unlike Puppy or Pony play, the Kitten Play community began developing online in the late 90’s – so kitten play is still pretty new! In this post we will look at; Types of Kittens Types of Tops Activities Gear Where to find out more Types of Kittens Domesticated – Kittens with a submissive and affectionate nature. Stray – A kitten that does not have an owner/partner. Feral – A kitten who is not submissive in nature. Feral kittens tend to…
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What is Puppy Play
Puppy Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a canine and their partner (if they have one) often takes on the role of an owner/trainer/handler Puppy play as we know it began in the leather community after the 2nd world war. Now days puppy play has become hugely popular within BDSM communities! In this post we will look at; Types of Pups Some common puppy types pet players identify with are: Puppies – Puppies are the over excitable, playful and super enthusiastic puppy player. Puppies or pups is also used as an umbrella name for puppy player. Strays – Pups who are…
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BDSM Kitten Play Training
The fun and playful ways I use Training in my BDSM Pet Play
