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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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How to name your Pet Play space
Not to brag, but it only took me about four years(?) to finally choose a name for my pet play space… I’m just really decisive like that. Finally settling on a name was a surprisingly important moment for me, and it has helped me feel closer to my kitten space. So naturally, any time I do something that improves my pet play, I want to write about it! In this post we will look at: The benefits of naming your pet play space Using a special name(s) can add depth to your roleplay scene. It helps to create more “space” between you the reader, the human, all different roles you…
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Reconnecting with Pet Play
Sometimes – often – life gets in the way and we lose touch with parts of ourselves. These parts can be our hobbies, friends, lifestyles or – to be on topic – kink. Job changes, injuries, illness, study, even breakups can all leave us feeling disconnected from parts of ourselves that we really value. This happened to me last year… repeatedly. So While I’m still working on reconnecting with many sides of myself I wanted to write here about how I’m rebuilding my connection with my pet side To both acknowledge my progress and hopefully help others out there who are going through something similar. When I first realised that…
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Begginners Guide to Pet Play – How to get into Pet Space
The best way I've found to get into Pet space!
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Crafty critters – DIY day collar
So the other day I was deep in the black hole of the instagram pet community and I saw this Naturally I absolutly had to make a day collar with a little bell and I thought to myself Make it into a cradty critters tutorial!!! So lets get started! Making the collar All you will need for this part is string and scissors! Measure the string around your neck and add about 10cm. Cut 2 of this measurement. Then cut a third piece about 4-6 times longer than your center pieces Fold your long piece of string in half and gather your pieces together like so Tie a simple knot…
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Pet Play – Building a dynamic
A introduction to building a dynamic with new play partners
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Crafty Critters – No-sew Clip in Bows!
An easy DIY project for any pet to enjoy wearing and making! Instructions Optional Step – Fancy Bow tails! First take your 12 cm piece/s of ribbon and fold them in half width ways Cut your ribbon at about a 45 degree angle To seal try keep it loosely in half and run it past the flame (this helps to keep a crisp inner corner) Do this of each end of the ribbon. Fold your 20 and 15 cm pieces of ribbon in half lengthways. I like to have the sealed edges fold over each other so I can secure the loop with a small dot of glue Once everything…
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Begginers Guide to Pet Play – Finding your pet side
When I first started in pet play I was overwhelmed with all of the information out there From choosing animals to roleplay to developing fully functional dynamics with others and all the little details in between… Pet Play can be intimidating. So if you’re feeling a little overwhelmed – it’s okay! I was exactly where you were and it gets better. So I wanted to write this post to try to help myself and others find their feet amongst all the information that’s out there. We will look at Choosing the type of pet you want to roleplay For me, this was probably the most stressful part of getting started…
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What is Pet Play?
Pet Play is when someone role plays some kind of domesticated animal (AKA a pet) within a BDSM context. What does Pet play looks like? Storytime! The room is lit with a warm yellow glow, the smell of vanilla – His signature – drifts through the room.The door opens a crack and His pet slips into the room – still steaming from her shower – flashing him a smile before burying herself in His arms.He chuckles and asks“Are you ready to be my kitten, pet?”She wriggles in excitement and nods eagerly.Ears are collected, placed on her head – adjusted briefly by practiced hands as she is instructed;“Tail up”Obediently she moves…
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Pet Play – How to carry your own leash
So right now most of us are in isolation to help flatten the curve of COVID19 (gold star guys!). I don’t know about you but when I found out my study was to be postponed .. I had no clue what I was gonna do with myself – until that is I chatted to a kinky friend of mine about what we would be doing with all this free time and I realized This is the perfect chance to take a break from the vanilla world and spend some time enjoying kink – and that means more pet play!! But lil succubuss I’m single/my top isn’t in isolation with me/my…
