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BDSM Negotiations
When I first began playing with some dear friends of mine we began our negotiations using mind maps! It was such a fun time explaining and learning about one another and it honestly deepened my understanding of my submission more than I thought possible in one sitting. And introduced me to a bunch of new ideas. AND made us all so much closer SO naturally I wanted to share this with all of you! What we used What we did We decided to do these mind maps following a day hanging out together so we got back to their place, all of us got comfy on the floor with snacks…
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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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How to name your Pet Play space
Not to brag, but it only took me about four years(?) to finally choose a name for my pet play space… I’m just really decisive like that. Finally settling on a name was a surprisingly important moment for me, and it has helped me feel closer to my kitten space. So naturally, any time I do something that improves my pet play, I want to write about it! In this post we will look at: The benefits of naming your pet play space Using a special name(s) can add depth to your roleplay scene. It helps to create more “space” between you the reader, the human, all different roles you…
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BDSM Puppy Play Training
Recently I had a conversation with a fellow kinky friend who had recently discovered puppy play – and had been having a lot of fun with it! She asked me for some advice on training in her pup space and I was honestly a bit stumped. I’d seen pups train and play at previous parties but being a kitten I’d never thought about puppy training before. So we bounced around some ideas and it inspired me to do some research and create this post for any other pups out there who are starting out on there puppy training! Sit How to do it Get yourself into a comfortable kneeling position…
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What is Puppy Play
Puppy Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a canine and their partner (if they have one) often takes on the role of an owner/trainer/handler Puppy play as we know it began in the leather community after the 2nd world war. Now days puppy play has become hugely popular within BDSM communities! In this post we will look at; Types of Pups Some common puppy types pet players identify with are: Puppies – Puppies are the over excitable, playful and super enthusiastic puppy player. Puppies or pups is also used as an umbrella name for puppy player. Strays – Pups who are…
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BDSM Kitten Play Training
The fun and playful ways I use Training in my BDSM Pet Play
