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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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Begginners Guide to Pet Play – How to get into Pet Space
The best way I've found to get into Pet space!
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What is kitten play?
Kitten Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a cat and their partner (if they have one) usually acts as their owner Unlike Puppy or Pony play, the Kitten Play community began developing online in the late 90’s – so kitten play is still pretty new! In this post we will look at; Types of Kittens Types of Tops Activities Gear Where to find out more Types of Kittens Domesticated – Kittens with a submissive and affectionate nature. Stray – A kitten that does not have an owner/partner. Feral – A kitten who is not submissive in nature. Feral kittens tend to…
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BDSM Kitten Play Training
The fun and playful ways I use Training in my BDSM Pet Play
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Crafty critters – DIY day collar
So the other day I was deep in the black hole of the instagram pet community and I saw this Naturally I absolutly had to make a day collar with a little bell and I thought to myself Make it into a cradty critters tutorial!!! So lets get started! Making the collar All you will need for this part is string and scissors! Measure the string around your neck and add about 10cm. Cut 2 of this measurement. Then cut a third piece about 4-6 times longer than your center pieces Fold your long piece of string in half and gather your pieces together like so Tie a simple knot…
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Pet Play – Building a dynamic
A introduction to building a dynamic with new play partners
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Crafty Critters – No-sew Clip in Bows!
An easy DIY project for any pet to enjoy wearing and making! Instructions Optional Step – Fancy Bow tails! First take your 12 cm piece/s of ribbon and fold them in half width ways Cut your ribbon at about a 45 degree angle To seal try keep it loosely in half and run it past the flame (this helps to keep a crisp inner corner) Do this of each end of the ribbon. Fold your 20 and 15 cm pieces of ribbon in half lengthways. I like to have the sealed edges fold over each other so I can secure the loop with a small dot of glue Once everything…
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Begginers Guide to Pet Play – Finding your pet side
When I first started in pet play I was overwhelmed with all of the information out there From choosing animals to roleplay to developing fully functional dynamics with others and all the little details in between… Pet Play can be intimidating. So if you’re feeling a little overwhelmed – it’s okay! I was exactly where you were and it gets better. So I wanted to write this post to try to help myself and others find their feet amongst all the information that’s out there. We will look at Choosing the type of pet you want to roleplay For me, this was probably the most stressful part of getting started…
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What is Pet Play?
Pet Play is when someone role plays some kind of domesticated animal (AKA a pet) within a BDSM context. What does Pet play looks like? Storytime! The room is lit with a warm yellow glow, the smell of vanilla – His signature – drifts through the room.The door opens a crack and His pet slips into the room – still steaming from her shower – flashing him a smile before burying herself in His arms.He chuckles and asks“Are you ready to be my kitten, pet?”She wriggles in excitement and nods eagerly.Ears are collected, placed on her head – adjusted briefly by practiced hands as she is instructed;“Tail up”Obediently she moves…
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Misconceptions about Animal Roleplay
Like most subcultures out there Animal Roleplay has a TON of random misconceptions about it. This can be really frustrating when you are trying to explain your (or understand someone else’s) love of Animal Roleplay! It can be stressful enough coming out of the cattery (haha) to people in your life without having to go through and explain a dozen different misconceptions your person may have heard… In this post we are going to cover the following common misconceptions people have about Animal Roleplay; Role players believe that they are actually animals Animal Roleplay is Bestiality/Zoophilia Its a purely sexual activity Animal Roleplay is ONLY a fetish/kink/BDSM activity It’s not…
