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BDSM Negotiations
When I first began playing with some dear friends of mine we began our negotiations using mind maps! It was such a fun time explaining and learning about one another and it honestly deepened my understanding of my submission more than I thought possible in one sitting. And introduced me to a bunch of new ideas. AND made us all so much closer SO naturally I wanted to share this with all of you! What we used What we did We decided to do these mind maps following a day hanging out together so we got back to their place, all of us got comfy on the floor with snacks…
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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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Cow Play – An Introduction to Hucow roleplay
Cow play is a popular genre of pet play where the pet takes on the role and behaviours of cattle. This type of pet play has strong ties with lactation fetishes, D/s dynamics and objectification. Cow Play can also be referred to as Livestock play. Livestock play, from my understanding, is an umbrella term for pet players who play the role of any kind of livestock. This includes cows, pigs, sheep, goats or any other animal that is normally raised and/or used on a farm. Cow players are often referred to as hucows (human cows) and play in conjunction with D-types, who are often referred to as Farmers. Types of…
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BDSM Kitten Play Training
The fun and playful ways I use Training in my BDSM Pet Play
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Pet Play – Building a dynamic
A introduction to building a dynamic with new play partners
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Begginers Guide to Pet Play – Finding your pet side
When I first started in pet play I was overwhelmed with all of the information out there From choosing animals to roleplay to developing fully functional dynamics with others and all the little details in between… Pet Play can be intimidating. So if you’re feeling a little overwhelmed – it’s okay! I was exactly where you were and it gets better. So I wanted to write this post to try to help myself and others find their feet amongst all the information that’s out there. We will look at Choosing the type of pet you want to roleplay For me, this was probably the most stressful part of getting started…
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Types of Animal Roleplay
Like I’ve said before animal roleplay is literally everywhere throughout history. Which is great if you are a history geek but what if you are interested in Animal roleplay today – maybe you wanna try it, maybe a friend/partner is into it and you want to be supportive – go you!! This post is for you! In today’s post I’m going to go through the basics of some of the common kinds of animal Roleplay seen today. In this Post we are going to look at; And Pet Players Pet Play is when someone roleplays a domesticated animal in a BDSM setting/scene. Pet Play only occurs within BDSM and leather…
