Pet Play Scene – Do you want to go walk?!

Taking your human pet out and about on a walk is a really fun Pet Play Scene to do together and has a wide range of intensity and complexity depending on your negotiations and planning. 

This scene works well for partners who have been playing together for a while and have a good knowledge of one another as – unless you own a wide expanse of private property – this is a more public scene; it does come with different risk factors and requires trust to execute in a fun and safe way.

Before you start your Pet Play Scene

Remember to negotiate your scene and safewords before any scene!

If you are unsure how to go about this I would recommend you check out Chiefs blog post on planning BDSM scenes!

And if you havent already check out my previous posts on safewords and negotiagions!

Risk Factors for this Pet Play Scene

However unlike at home BDSM scenes – public scenes come with their own set of unique risk factors that we are going to take a look at 

3rd party consent

So like most kinksters I am big on enthusiastic and informed consent!

Consent in BDSM is not only limited to those directly involved in a scene i.e. the top and the bottom 

but also those who will witness it 

for example your spotter would have consented to watching your scene when they consented to spot for your scene.

This is 3rd party consent

In order to play ethically in front of others you need their consent

Strangers out and about in the world have not consented to witness your scene, play or dynamics. 

As fun as they are for you. 

Attendees of a play party however – in order to attend – have consented to witnessing play and having their scenes witnessed by others (unless in a private area). 

3rd party consent does not mean you cannot play out of the house or dungeon – it just means you need to be sneaky!

Getting caught 

Risks involved in getting caught by someone you know or who knows you can range from slightly embarrassing and funny to the loss of employment. 

The level of risk will be unique for each person, place and time in their lives

Figure out what the risk is for you and your partner and have an open honest conversation about it before you jump into public scenes.

Reducing Risk in you Pet Play Scene

So now we have highlighted two unique risk factors to public play. Let’s talk about how you can reduce these risks whilst still having fun!

Time and location of your scene

The less people around during your scene the less risk of getting caught or violating 3rd party consent

Organise to walk your human pet during off-peak hours and quiet places!

Take some time to research walking tracks in your area and go for the ones with the least engagement (thank you google reviews)

I would recommend planning your scene for the evening or early mornings 

These are great times for outdoor scenes as the lower visibility gives you extra cover for shenanigans.

Walking your pet – sneaky edition 

A collar and leash sadly is not the most subtle method to use when taking your human pet out on a walk. 

Luckily we have some alternatives to keep your pet appropriately leashed!

The sleeve tuck

Winter evenings are a prime time for this method. With the low visibility and big jackets you can still have your traditional collar and lead for your walk!

All you need to do is feed your leash down a jacket sleeve and to passers by it just looks like you are holding hands!

How sweet!

If you’re like me and your collars are… not at all subtle you can cover them with a scarf!

Verbal commands

Verbal commands do require some training prior to your scene but they have so many uses!

For me the command to follow means I am to stay to my tops right side and slightly behind or beside them – this command is also how I position myself when on a leash.

This command means i will stay by my Top regardless of where they go – making it easier to keep an eye on me

The Belt loop 

Sometimes pets are too distractible to be trusted with verbal commands but you are also not in a place to have them leashed. 

Having your pet hook their finger into your belt loop. 

This will prevent them from going more than an arms distance away from you and acts as a physical reminder of your command. 

Top Tip 

Animal themed or eared clothing is also a great subtle way to express your pet side without raising suspicion

Goals for your Pet Play scene 

Some goals or intentions that would meld with this kind of scene are;

• Burn off some of that extra energy your pet may have in the evening
• Taking your pet into a new environment in the next step of their obedience training
• Quality time and reconnection within D/s dynamic
• To try something new
• Teasing and foreplay for exhibitionistic pets

How your Pet Play scene could look 

What you will need

• A big jacket for your pet
• Walking shoes
• A quite route
• Good weather
• Collar and leash
• Treats!

The flow

1. Take some time getting your pet into their headspace and ask your pet if they would like to go on a walk. Wind them up and get them excited!
2. Lead your pet to the front door, instruct them to kneel while you put on their collar and leash – remind them pets need to be kept on leash when they go outside. 

If you want to be sweet you can put on your pets jacket for them and feed the leash down one of their sleeves.

3. After some head scratches and loves remind your pet to heel and go off on your walk 
4. While walking around, test out some commands (link to pet training blog post) with your pet and provide the appropriate rewards for their obedience – I personally will do anything for m&ms!
5. Take your time and let your pet explore as you walk – they may even bring you little presents – My kitten side tends to bring crunchy leaves as gifts. Rewards for bringing gifts are heavily encouraged… for completely self serving reasons 
6. If you pass by a playground allowing your pets to climb and playing a small games of chase (they can hold their leash during the game)
7. Once your pet has explored and burnt some excess energy make your way home 
8. Once inside remove their jacket, collar, leash etc
9. Spend some time cuddling and interacting in pet space following your walk 
10. End of scene and Aftercare

Additions to your Pet Play Scene

Some ideas to add some extra spice to your scene

• Add extra pet accessories to aid in pet space 
  • Hoodies and beanies with ears are becoming more mainstream in fashion allowing us some sneaky options for ears!
  • Hide your insertable tails down a pant leg
    • I’d recommend big sweatpants
• To add an element of bondage to your scene. Leather cuffs can be worn – or rope harnesses can be tied under your pets clothes.
• Have your pet on speech restrictions for the duration of your walk
  • or have them gagged under a mask
• Remote controlled vibrators/plugs can provide extra incentive and rewards for obedience.
• Disguise a game of fetch as a game of catch – your poor pet just struggles with catching the ball and has to run after it…. Everytime
• Shock collars are a great tool for those masochists or bratty pets. These collars can also work well for fear and mind games.

Mochi