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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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Making Pet Ears – my skill transformation and Top Tips
I have been making pet ears for… about 3 years now? And the other day I found one of my first ever pairs of ears!! …that weren’t immediately trashed… And I wanted to share with you my progression over the years and the Top 3 alterations that I think have made the biggest difference to the quality of my pet ears. Making Pet Ears in 2019 This pair of ears is one of the first sets I ever made. They were for a high protocol evening back in the day when we could actually host large events Ahh the good old days. Making Pet Ears in 2022 This is a…
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Reconnecting with Pet Play
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Begginners Guide to Pet Play – How to get into Pet Space
The best way I've found to get into Pet space!
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What is kitten play?
Kitten Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a cat and their partner (if they have one) usually acts as their owner Unlike Puppy or Pony play, the Kitten Play community began developing online in the late 90’s – so kitten play is still pretty new! In this post we will look at; Types of Kittens Types of Tops Activities Gear Where to find out more Types of Kittens Domesticated – Kittens with a submissive and affectionate nature. Stray – A kitten that does not have an owner/partner. Feral – A kitten who is not submissive in nature. Feral kittens tend to…
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What is Puppy Play
Puppy Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” takes on the role of a canine and their partner (if they have one) often takes on the role of an owner/trainer/handler Puppy play as we know it began in the leather community after the 2nd world war. Now days puppy play has become hugely popular within BDSM communities! In this post we will look at; Types of Pups Some common puppy types pet players identify with are: Puppies – Puppies are the over excitable, playful and super enthusiastic puppy player. Puppies or pups is also used as an umbrella name for puppy player. Strays – Pups who are…
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What is Pony Play
Pony Play is a type of pet play where the “pet” role plays as a horse and their partner (if they have one) takes on the role of a trainer, rider, owner or groom.
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Types of Animal Roleplay
Like I’ve said before animal roleplay is literally everywhere throughout history. Which is great if you are a history geek but what if you are interested in Animal roleplay today – maybe you wanna try it, maybe a friend/partner is into it and you want to be supportive – go you!! This post is for you! In today’s post I’m going to go through the basics of some of the common kinds of animal Roleplay seen today. In this Post we are going to look at; And Pet Players Pet Play is when someone roleplays a domesticated animal in a BDSM setting/scene. Pet Play only occurs within BDSM and leather…
