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Pet Play Scene – Do you want to go walk?!
Taking your human pet out and about on a walk is a really fun Pet Play Scene to do together and has a wide range of intensity and complexity depending on your negotiations and planning. This scene works well for partners who have been playing together for a while and have a good knowledge of one another as – unless you own a wide expanse of private property – this is a more public scene; it does come with different risk factors and requires trust to execute in a fun and safe way. Before you start your Pet Play Scene Remember to negotiate your scene and safewords before any scene! If…
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BDSM Negotiations
When I first began playing with some dear friends of mine we began our negotiations using mind maps! It was such a fun time explaining and learning about one another and it honestly deepened my understanding of my submission more than I thought possible in one sitting. And introduced me to a bunch of new ideas. AND made us all so much closer SO naturally I wanted to share this with all of you! What we used What we did We decided to do these mind maps following a day hanging out together so we got back to their place, all of us got comfy on the floor with snacks…
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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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5 ways to dress for Pet Play scenes
A quick post on my top 5 favorite outfits to wear for pet play scenes! With pros and cons of course Ears, paws, tail and collar it’s an outfit… right? Pro’s Insertable tails are easy Freedom of movement Provides easy access to pretty much everything during sexual scenes Con’s Can be cold May flash the goodies to unsuspecting visitors (or flatmates- sorry guys <3) Lingerie Pro’s Insertable tails are easy Freedom of movement Provides somewhat easy access for sexual scenes Con’s Can be cold Less access than being totally naked Friction from fabric can cause irritation on body parts your don’t want irritated! – although this is easily prevented by…
