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Pet Play Scene – Do you want to go walk?!
Taking your human pet out and about on a walk is a really fun Pet Play Scene to do together and has a wide range of intensity and complexity depending on your negotiations and planning. This scene works well for partners who have been playing together for a while and have a good knowledge of one another as – unless you own a wide expanse of private property – this is a more public scene; it does come with different risk factors and requires trust to execute in a fun and safe way. Before you start your Pet Play Scene Remember to negotiate your scene and safewords before any scene! If…
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BDSM Negotiations
When I first began playing with some dear friends of mine we began our negotiations using mind maps! It was such a fun time explaining and learning about one another and it honestly deepened my understanding of my submission more than I thought possible in one sitting. And introduced me to a bunch of new ideas. AND made us all so much closer SO naturally I wanted to share this with all of you! What we used What we did We decided to do these mind maps following a day hanging out together so we got back to their place, all of us got comfy on the floor with snacks…
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A big list of BDSM aftercare activity ideas
One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…
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Safewords! The key to consensual BDSM practice
Safewords are a key concept in the BDSM scene that allow us to play in a safe consensual manner with others. Safewords give both the Top and bottom in a scene the power to withdraw consent at any time. If you are unfamiliar with this concept you may be wondering Why do you need a special word? Just say no? The answer to this can be a little bit difficult to wrap your head around at first but Sometimes it’s fun to say no and then have the scene continue anyway, to cry out and struggle and beg for them to stop and they just keep going It adds to…
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Types of Animal Roleplay
Like I’ve said before animal roleplay is literally everywhere throughout history. Which is great if you are a history geek but what if you are interested in Animal roleplay today – maybe you wanna try it, maybe a friend/partner is into it and you want to be supportive – go you!! This post is for you! In today’s post I’m going to go through the basics of some of the common kinds of animal Roleplay seen today. In this Post we are going to look at; And Pet Players Pet Play is when someone roleplays a domesticated animal in a BDSM setting/scene. Pet Play only occurs within BDSM and leather…
