Pet play and chill – my favorite kinky date night

One of my favorite pet play dates is a pet movie date!

It is the basic idea of a regular at home movie date with a little bit of… Spice.

And the best part is you can dial this type of date up or down!

The basics of a pet play movie date

You will need a movie you want to watch and some privacy. 

Get comfy! 

I personally like to build a nest of fluffy blankets and wear as little clothing as temperatures allow

Put on your movie

Pets snuggle into your humans

Humans pat your pets

Enjoy the vibes and “try” not to get distracted

To dial up your Pet play and chill 

• Play a kinky movie
• Snacks!
• Add in some more restrictions for your pet 
• Dress to impress – ears tails the whole (comfy) sha-bang

Play a kinky movie

And no I don’t (necessarily) mean porn!

These are 3 of my favorite BDSM movies that include (at least a little bit) of pet play!

Love and Leashes (2022)

Available on Netflix, super cute movie and probably my favorite of all three. Follows two co-workers in their new and evolving D/s dynamic and romance! Their first proper scene is a pet play scene which just destroys me every time!

Secretary (2002)

Also available on netflix! Follows a lawyer and his secretary in a D/s dynamic. Sadly only hints at a little pet play during a montage of their kinky exploits but very fun to watch regardless!

The Pet (2007)

The pet is a french movie (English dubbed is an option!) where a woman agrees to become the human pet of a fabulously wealthy and man. Their dynamic is non sexual and is beautiful to watch. If you can ignore the weird human trafficking sub plot that comes in later on in the movie.

I do not know of any streaming sites that have this movie (as of yet!)

Snacks!

Take any of your usual movie snacks – like popcorn! 

And pop some of them in a pet bowl for your pet to munch on. 

Or you can have your pet beg for treats and eat from your hand. 

I personally try to have some home made pet treats made in advance for these kinds of nights 

or if I don’t have the energy I will get appropriately themed ones from the supermarket 

hello chocolate fish!

Add in some more restrictions for your pet 

You can also put some extra restrictions in place for your pet to add the the headspace 

For example;

Speech restrictions such as you pet may only meow, bark, whine, purr etc. until the movie is finished (excluding safewords)

Movement restrictions such as you pet is only allowed to crawl during the movie 

Maybe the rule is no pets on the furniture, or pets must beg to join you on the bed/couch etc 

Or pets may only eat out of a human’s hand or from a pet bowl

Dress to impress – ears tails the whole (comfy) sha-bang

One of the easiest ways to dial up your pet movie date is to add in your pet gear. 

Ears and tails are one of my biggest triggers into a pet mode and adding them into a movie date increases the depth of my headspace almost immediately 

Not to mention my partner absolutely loves to have a cat girl on their bed

If you want to have a spicier pet play and chill night comfy lingerie is also a fun addition 

But fair warning you will miss most of the movie.

Most importantly in any movie night have fun!

– Mochi –