Safewords are a key concept in the BDSM scene that allow us to play in a safe consensual manner with others. Safewords give both the Top and bottom in a scene the power to withdraw consent at any time.  If you are unfamiliar with this concept you may be wondering Why do you need a special word? Just say no? The answer to this can be a little bit difficult to wrap your head around at first but Sometimes it’s fun to say no  and then have the scene continue anyway,  to cry out and struggle and beg for them to stop and they just keep going It adds to…