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BDSM Negotiations
When I first began playing with some dear friends of mine we began our negotiations using mind maps! It was such a fun time explaining and learning about one another and it honestly deepened my understanding of my submission more than I thought possible in one sitting. And introduced me to a bunch of new ideas. AND made us all so much closer SO naturally I wanted to share this with all of you! What we used What we did We decided to do these mind maps following a day hanging out together so we got back to their place, all of us got comfy on the floor with snacks…
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Safewords! The key to consensual BDSM practice
Safewords are a key concept in the BDSM scene that allow us to play in a safe consensual manner with others. Safewords give both the Top and bottom in a scene the power to withdraw consent at any time. If you are unfamiliar with this concept you may be wondering Why do you need a special word? Just say no? The answer to this can be a little bit difficult to wrap your head around at first but Sometimes it’s fun to say no and then have the scene continue anyway, to cry out and struggle and beg for them to stop and they just keep going It adds to…
