One of the first things we are taught when we first begin our journey into the world of BDSM is – AFTERCARE! Aftercare is the time we take following a scene or sexual activity to take care of and check in with our partner both emotionally and physically. This time allows us to come back into a more balanced mental space before we move on with our time together or apart. It is super important for both Tops and bottoms to receive aftercare! As it helps to prevent and manage drop for both parties involved So we know aftercare is the time to check in and take care of our…